"no one dies a virgin cos life rapes us all"

Completely true. Let me put it this way "no one is born perfect, or he'd be a God by then" Don't expect one to be a God when he's only human. Don't expect to squeeze out 25 hours out of 24 hours cos there's, in fact, 24 hours. Don't expect your employee to be THE man when you know you're already THE man. Don't expect your employee to be like you because if he is, then he'd take your place, or rather, he would be just your clone. So what do you expect? Take it as it is. Give some advice along the way....

Take note: this is not directed to anybody in particular but rather it's a general discussion.

We are all growing up as a person. We grow up in different dimensions. Be it socially, professionally, mentally, or physically etc. Everyone is an individual. Everyone is different. Why do we need to be so fucking caught up with just one dimension of every individual when we can just stop to think and analyse (yeah that's the word) every individual's good points instead of criticising his bad ones? It takes one bad criticism for a man to destroy all the good work he has done in his other good dimensions.

Why can't we just be relaxed a bit and just take it as it is? We can't. We just can't. If we do, we'll be criticised like a million atomic bombs targeting at just that little 'bad dimension' of ours.

So I was told to relax a bit with my life. Just work and learn. Just stay focused on the big picture. The rest of it is not as important. So I did.

Destruction arrived. Just one blast.

I'll learn. Maybe I just shouldn't relax even a second. Every second in life counts. I will learn. I learn every second. Do you? Does anyone hear me? Does anyone else actually learns?? Or maybe I am the only one in this world that ought to learn? Negative i am not. I take everything as a positive point to advance.

Criticism is good. Constructive yet understanding criticism is even better. Learn to appreciate it is the best.

la vida es una perra? ciertamente mi amigo.